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Expats in Turkey : Love Them Or Hate Them

A search term on expats lead a reader to my blog this week and it has prompted me to write this post.  The search term used to find my blog was “mental health of expats in Turkey”. I was intrigued as to why someone was asking this. Had they been traveling around Turkey and come across the totally crazy expats that occupy these shores?  Were they thinking of moving here but were concerned about what expat life can do to a person’s mental health and well-being?

Whatever the reason the fact is that when you come to Turkey, you will definitely come into contact with one or more expats unless you are camping in the back of beyond. We are everywhere but mainly tend to gather in packs on the Aegean and Mediterranean coasts. I am not normally one for stereotyping people however life in Turkey as an expat does change your outlook and personality. When you meet us, you will be able to place us into one or more of the following four stereotypes.

Expats in Turkey – Group One – Mr and Mrs Frugal

They can normally be spotted in a bar arguing with the owner over the price of beer. When you point out that they are throwing their dummy out of the pram for the equivalent of a mere twenty pence, you will be subjected to a long winded lecture that it is not about the price but the principal. If Mr   and Mrs  Frugal do not get their discounted beer then the owner of the bar will subjected to a flurry of insults and threats that no expats will ever visit their bar again.

Solution – Point, laugh and carry on drinking.  Nobody takes any notice of them and neither should you.

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Expats – Group Two – Mr and Mrs Anti-Turkey

Unfortunately Mr and Mrs Negative were under the impression that they were moving to paradise. They expected blissful days in the sun with not a worry in the world. Of course, a combination of bad but  insignificant events have lead  Mr and Mrs Negative to believe  that the Prime minister of Turkey personally hates them with a vengeance and has implemented a campaign to get them out of the country. Instead of helping you to know more about Turkey, they have an effect that makes you want to throw yourself under the nearest passing bus.

Solution – Wear a disguise; change your hotel or even resort.  Just do anything to avoid them at all costs. Negativity is contagious and after thirty minutes of listening to them you will be signing up for a life supply of Prozac.

Expats – Group Three – Mr and Mrs Know-It-All.

Mr and Mrs Know-It-All are like a double sided coin. They can provide you with a lot of useful information however their attitude of talking down to you like a three year old makes you want to shove a rotten Turkish kebab down their throat. Do not under any circumstances, question the knowledge of Mr and Mrs Know-It-All as you will find yourself thrown out of their gang and social invites will dwindle down to nothing.

Solution – If you want an active social life, then understand and comprehend the meaning of one way conversations. If being part of the gang is not an issue for you,  just ignore them but be prepared for your ears to be burning 24/7.

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Expats – Group Four – The Type We Love

These expats have settled into the community with realistic expectations. They know they are living in a country with different customs, traditions and a language barrier. They will share information and help you in such a way that a long term friendship is formed.  If you come across these expats then treasure them and use them to find out everything you want to know about Turkey whether you are planning on living here or simply traveling around.

“Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go.”  –  Oscar Wilde.

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  1. Natalie says

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    Yes, normally when they have been hanging around with the wrong types!

  2. Katie says

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    Loved this post Natalie! Don’t you agree that there is often a fine line between #3 and #4. They may seem like #4 at first but after a conversation it becomes clear that they know EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING!

  3. Natalie says

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    It amazes me too Kelly and I still hear it every day!

  4. Kelly says

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    LOVE this blog Natalie and also the responses to date! keep them rolling in!
    I definitely agree with the first response with proposal for a fifth group who hate “bloody foreigners” (usually emphasis on the Kurds in this group…because they for some reason, consider Kurds to be foreign within their own country) yet they move abroad to become foreigners themselves …….. and then spread their anti-foreign opinions to Turks / Kurds who listen bemused!
    I guess being British is not classed as being foreign in their small minds [email protected]!

  5. liam says

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    excellent. i hate know-it-alls! tip: they normally don’t!

  6. Terry says

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    Hi Natalie – Thanks for listing me in this post! (Better late than never.) I really appreciate it. And I particularly can relate to the Mr. and Mrs. Know it all! If I had a penny for every time . . .

    Have a great weekend!

  7. Natalie says

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    In a way Theodora the Turks start it. There is a price war going on at the moment with the price of beer. Some of the restaurants trying to undercut each other.

  8. Theodora says

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    So it’s not just objecting to the price of a beer but negotiating a discount? How on earth does Turkey attract these people?

  9. Sarah Wu says

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    ha ha what a fun post, I like how you group them and explaining them.

  10. Lyn says

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    What a fantastic blog and so so true…….I hope I am #4!!!

  11. Natalie says

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    @Raymond – So true!

    @Nancie – We are contagious! 🙂

    @Jim – Of course you are in group 4. I would not dream of putting you in any other.

  12. Jim says

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    Hi Natalie,
    the other type is the ‘eye specialist’.
    “I’ve been there…I’ve done that…I know….”

    Stick me in group 4 please…I know you will.!

  13. Nancie says

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    They are everywhere! 🙂

  14. Raymond says

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    Very nice post! Here’s hoping you have 4’s at your table and the rest in your rear-view mirror… 🙂

  15. Natalie says

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    @Barbara – You are definitely number 4 as well with the amount of information that you share on your blog.

    @Aaron – Hmm another blog post idea there about the Turkish language. I have my wicked head on today!

    @Pete – Thanks Pete – If these expats are all over the world, then perhaps it is a stage process as Jake mentioned above.

  16. Pete | Hecktic Travels says

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    I loved this post. And I agree with Andrew above that you see these types everywhere, especially here in Roatan, Honduras… I have seen all ranging from 1-4 and your advice for dealing with 1-3 is great 😉

  17. Aaron says

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    Thanks for the great post. How true! To echo everyone else – I hope I’m in that last group. Perhaps another group could be the English Compound Club, those found working tirelessly to never learn the local language.

  18. Barbara says

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    Hi Natalie! Yes, I agree with everyone here when I say that I, too, hope we are number 4! I have met many of the other types of expats you describe, and they are quite exhausting to deal with! Best thing to do is politely avoid them and seek out new friends! 🙂

  19. Natalie says

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    @Hi Andrew. Yes Ayak’s suggestion was a very good one

    @Elaine. I liked Shane’s suggestion as well. Not mentioning any names though!

    @Turkeys For life. With the information on your blog, no one can say you are anything but number four!

    @Cam. Glad you liked my post of the crazy expats in Turkey!

  20. Cam says

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    Fun and insightful post – and so true!

  21. Turkey's For Life says

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    Thanks for the mention Natalie. I’m going to sit here contentedly and tell myself we are number 4 stereotypes. Hopefully, no one will contradict this. 🙂
    Julia

  22. Elaine says

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    Spot on! I would also agree with Shane’s additional types.
    I’m also type 4 obviously 🙂

  23. Andrew says

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    This sort of list isn’t isolated to Turkey. I see some of the same groups pop up in the Expat circles in Germany too.

    I like @Ayak’s recommendation. Sometimes living the expat life can be so trying that any other expat seems like a friend just because you have the expatness in common. It is worth thinking about whether you actually want them as a friend and not just cling to familiarity.

  24. Natalie says

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    @Michael – Loved your post on Ralph and the pet monkey!

    @Jake. You have a point there actually. Everyone goes through then stages but hopefully they come out at number four in the end. Adding your Expat blog to the list now

  25. Jake Olson says

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    This is good. I think I’ve fallen into all four categories at times. It’s fun to see myself profiled in this way. Hopefully I’ve leveled out to group four. It seems to me that these may actually be stages that most people who stay long term pass through at some point along the journey… although some people don’t ever reach stage 4.

  26. Michael Hodson says

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    Love this post — I did an “expat post” long, long ago on my blog, trashing some expats in particular in Nicaragua. Back then I was a bit naive and didn’t realize people would search for themselves or my blog. These folks found the post… and commented. 😉 http://www.goseewrite.com/2008/05/expats-in-nicaragua/ — still makes me chuckle.

  27. Natalie says

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    @shane. Thanks Shane. As I was writing it, I hoped I would be classed as number four as well! You definitely are 🙂

    @Ayak – Great advice Ayak and still loving your blog.

    @Karen and thanks for your comment. I had to put in number four otherwise we would all be booking ourselves in for therapy!

  28. Karen says

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    Whew! Thank goodness, there was a positive role for expats. I was getting worried there. Hope I’m #4!

  29. Ayak says

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    Thanks for mentioning my blog Natalie…and this is a brilliant post and sums up expats pretty well.

    My advice to new expats would be to integrate as much as possible. Embrace the culture and the generosity of this wonderful race, and above all when forming friendships with other expats stop and ask yourself if they are really the kind of people you would have been friends with in your home country. If they aren’t there’s no reason why they should be friends here.

  30. Shane says

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    He he. Fun post. Please God I hope we’re number Four.

    I’ve thought of two more though: Mr and Mrs leader of the clique who stare at people walking into OUR bar

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    Mr and Mrs we hate immigrants and foreigners so we thought we’d move abroad and become immigrants ourselves.


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